The Valentines Day

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 As Valentine's Day rolls around, the buzz of couples exchanging roses and chocolates is palpable in the bustling hallways of high school. But for a 10th grader facing the day without a significant other, it can feel like a solo journey amidst a sea of budding romances. However, this doesn't mean the day has to be any less special. For those without a Valentine, February 14th can transform from a day of romantic love into a celebration of self-love and friendship, a chance to appreciate the love that exists in all forms around us.

For a 10th grader, Valentine's Day can be an excellent opportunity to reflect on personal growth and the importance of self-appreciation. Without the pressure to plan the perfect date or find the ideal gift, one can focus on self-care and the things that bring personal joy. It's an ideal time to dive into a favorite book, indulge in a hobby, or treat oneself to a movie or a favorite snack. The day can also be an impetus to set new goals or to spend extra time on schoolwork, laying the foundation for future success. For students, understanding the importance of loving and investing in oneself is just as valuable as learning the equations in math class or the themes in English literature.

Additionally, Valentine's Day can serve as a reminder of the significance of platonic relationships. It's an excellent occasion to strengthen friendships by expressing gratitude to friends who offer support, laughter, and camaraderie. Organizing a group outing, such as a trip to the arcade, a sports game, or a group study session, can help ensure that everyone feels included. The day can be spent crafting handmade valentines or baking treats to distribute throughout the school, spreading cheer and warmth. In this way, Valentine's Day becomes less about romantic affection and more about the compassionate bonds that make everyday life a bit brighter.

Ultimately, Valentine's Day as a 10th grader without a Valentine isn't a predicament; it's a chance to redefine the day in terms that celebrate personal happiness and the joy of non-romantic relationships. It can be a lesson in recognizing that while high school is often a period of fleeting romances, the relationship with oneself and with friends is enduring. It's about finding joy in the mundane, learning to appreciate the small moments, and understanding that sometimes, the best Valentine can be found in the mirror or in the camaraderie of companionship.


References:

https://www.ipsos.com/en-nl/valentines-day-around-world

https://www.realsimple.com/holidays-entertaining/holidays/valentines-day/history-of-valentines-day

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/events/happy-valentines-day-2022-images-quotes-wishes-messages-cards-greetings-pictures-and-gifs/articleshow/89540674.cms

https://blogs.chapman.edu/sustainability/2017/02/14/love-your-planet-love-your-community/

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